Are you friend or foe?: "My friends' heart i wanna protect it like it's mine"

"We couldn't know what people thoughts...
 We couldn't know people's heart...
 Sometimes we just guessing people without knowing the truth, without asking, without  thinking..."

my forever best friend and my forever wAnita!

Best Friends...

What actually it means?

For me the meaning of best friend is a TRUE GOOD FRIEND

As i know good friends are someone who always beside us...

Someone who always telling the truth, not justify everything but telling the truth

Good Friends wouldn't stabbed you behind your back...

Good Friends wouldn't discredit you but giving you wise advice..

still my wAnita

best!

wAnita look like a man

i miss my college time !!

I ever thought that good friend is someone who stays behind you to push you when you stop

and i ever thought that good friend is someone who stays in front of you to pull you when you're down...

But now my mind has already changed

Good friend is someone who will stay beside you....

To protect you from doing mistakes,

To support you when you're down 

To warn you when you're wrong 

give you advice for your own good...

To hold your hand and through the paths together...

a good friend is a friend who knows the limits and capacity as friend

That's called as TRUE BEST FRIEND in my mind...

Yes we're TEACHER!!even we taught at same school!wince,oba, me and kujeng, where's wawa?

wohooo !!! my best girls!!! kujeng, shera and oba

can we go back to this time?? my kujeng, my oba,me and my wince!!

Yes i had a moment here with my best friends!! wince and me

Thank you for the surprise b'day party!!!my kujeng and my oba

at wawa' house, we should take picture together why only me! :(

Foe? 

what's that mean?

for me the one that always wanna get close to us but only to take advantage from us, 

The one that only discredit us without any meaning

The one that couldn't get shut their mouth and annoyed us

The one that always act that they did everything for our sake

The one that always wanna get involved into our life

and the one that most happiest of our failure

that's called as a TRUE FOE for me! 

and i don't wanna get involved with such kinds of person

That's why i just wanna have positive minds and thoughts

I wouldn't be bother with such fake person because i know the reality

In this world we couldn't push people to act and think as we wish

we couldn't force people to be as we wish, because they have their own thoughts and their own believe!

me, Dinceu and wAnita !!!we met only for taking pictures :D

poor me i don't have lots pictures,,they're my friend from elementary school and since junior high school  until NOW and still friends!! 

That's why i didn't force others to be my friends, to be my best friends, and i wouldn't ask them to change their mind about me...i just will let it flows 

because i already have my own best friends...and i trust them...

even though i seldom meet and communicate with them but i know that they're always in the same place,

as my good friends 

we lives our own lives

we choose our own path

we decide our own decision

but we know that we have each other

as Good best friends...

we're just acting!!! me Deydes and wAnita!!!

still wAnita, Deydes and Me!! Night at College! :D

still 3 of us (what we did!!!)hahaha

did you scared of 3 of us 

*PS: I shed my tears when i put the pictures on this post because i miss that time so much and i miss them all! :)

"My friends' heart i wanna protect it like it's mine..."

Deydes, wAnita, abang and me

still us and Oba-chan at our basecamp!

*色んなことを守りたい *I want to protect many things*

_ORieNz_

Don't be ashamed of who you are! (You are what you think)

Once more I have to go through for a new phase on my life.

Yup!!! New Year 2014!!!

The way that life guides me is always up and down. But no matter how hard my life is, I just need to pass it, walk into it and handle it. Some people might see that my life is easy. The fact is I just make it easier for myself.

From the very beginning, I have to face lots of things. Some people said that I look like a jumping louse. But I can’t handle it. That was just happened in my life.

I was born in a little town, I've never been in overseas, my foreign language ability is not at advance level, I don’t use luxurious items and I’m not wealth and i'm not so smart. I choose to be the ordinary one.

I don’t want to pretend that I need to become as someone else because everyone want to see me like they want to do.  

For me, the definition of luxurious is not that we have to use branded items or high price items.

The definition of wealth is not how much money or anything we have...and 

The definition of intelligence is not only get good grades...

BUT Luxurious, wealth and intelligence are how we manage our life, how we acted and behaved, how we speak, what we choose and how we describe ourselves to others.

It’s not all imaging but the depiction of ourselves; it will show who we are. 

Because i thought that luxurious and intelligence can't be bought by wealth...

even though you are wealthy but your attitude is bad, even though you are smart but you don't know how to put yourself, it will be so useless and not worth it!

To be honest everything is back to our intention but if we give a bad impression to others since the very beginning, they will annoyed of us. 

And I don’t like people who spread negativity to other by what they thought and how they acted.

positive...we can learn from the smallest things, like how we appreciate other people...how we control our thoughts and mouth when we talk, how we manage our heart to have a big heart...it's not easy but at least we need to try.....that's what i think!

"Smart people are those who know their capacity and capability and put the right thing on the right place".

"The dangerous thing is smart people who smart ass, because they already know that they have a good brain then they treat people like trash, they thought that the only one who has good brain is their self..so they thought they are the most true person".

It’s me, just me and that's what i thought, every time I remember about those things above make me think harder. I've met so many kinds of people. I know many great people and i'm not ashamed of who i am

Because i always remember my daddy's quote:

 “You shouldn't be ashamed of who you are, You shouldn't be ashamed of your ability because even you're just standard person like they thought, You can reach on them. So, the one that should be ashamed is “them (who are ignorant of you)”. 

BUT REMEMBER Keep Humble!!! 

-OrieNz-